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Family karma, the karmic cycle with your relatives

Dear Jennifer:  No one in my family seems to get along and I’ve tried my best to try and referee in many situations. But then everyone seems to be plotting against me and I’m the one who suffers. I know I have karma with them, but is getting them to love, honor and respect each other (and me) part of my karmic journey? How much karma am I responsible for in my family?

Jennifer’s answer:  Your family members have karma on two levels, with you and with each other. The karma they have with you is what you can solve. You are not a part of what they have with each other, and it is not in your power.

Even though it is difficult for you to feel the conflict between them, it is up to them to resolve it and if you try to intervene, they will take sides against you, because you intervene in what they serve together. to work out. If they were ready to do this, they would appreciate your help more.

It may sound strange, but one way to dissolve karma is to refuse to participate in it. The karma you are aware of in this lifetime is part of a longer and much more complex karmic cycle with your family members.

Your desire to help them heal their karma comes from your fear that they would not heal their karma, and that you will have to come back to help them. You may also remember lives where their fighting and disharmony damaged you in some way.

This is also an alignment problem, you are aligned with their healing while they are aligned with their karma. Until they also align with their healing and see this as potential for themselves, they will not be able to view your desire for healing as anything else as a threat, and will view that as criticism and condemnation to them.

Even if it makes them uncomfortable, this is the path they have chosen until they decide they want it different.

Could this family help you understand the importance of letting go of your common karma and help you focus on creating your highest good, joy and peace? By seeing how much they reject your help, even if it comes from the heart and has been offered from the highest intentions, you are shown that they are not ready for the healing you desire for them.

And by trying to get them to heal the karma they have, you are not focusing on the most important healing in your life, your own healing. So forgive yourself for thinking that your karmic healing depends on theirs, and release them from that cycle with you. Then go to your joyful, karma-free life, and when they are ready, they will find their own way to release and heal their karma.


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