Taking responsibility for your own life

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Taking responsibility for your own life
Expectations

We are so busy adapting to everything and everyone around us that it is sometimes difficult to take your own responsibility. You taught yourself it and it is through education and society and because you feel responsible. This can partly be due to your sensitivity (empathy) or because of the situation, you are in, such as a relationship. You will therefore also expect the same.

Whether you do it consciously or unconsciously, it doesn’t matter. What does matter is that you get expectations from each other and that you place the responsibility on the other at that moment? But if you hand over all power and do not take responsibility for yourself and your own life, you are bound to run into the lamp. No one else can be responsible for your happiness! No one but yourself!

Taking responsibility for your own life

We are so busy handing over the responsibility to others that it will be a very difficult task to meet those requirements at all. You can put your hand in your own bosom when it comes to your life. But where does that urge come from to always place that responsibility on the other person? Are we not enough for ourselves? Does it have to do with the amount of self-love? Don’t we dare to put responsibility on ourselves because of the lack of self-confidence? Where is it with you?

Why do you think you keep giving the responsibility away? Is it security? Not daring to get out of your comfort zone? It all has to do with it, of course, but what are your motivations? Do you dare to look at that? Do you dare to take responsibility for that? without wanting to analyze everything too much and accept it as it is. We’ve already done enough of that overanalysis in our lives and it often hasn’t gotten us much further. It has often made us complicate situations even more and made the problem bigger in our heads.

To discover

If we only learn to listen more to what our heart has to say and stop analyzing everything in our head. If we just do what presents us at that moment and take responsibility for what we put our head in at that moment want to bend over. Whatever problem or challenge or daily habit that is. Look at what you need at that moment, without handing over the responsibility to someone or someone else. If you hand over the responsibility to someone else, you can let someone else decide what concerns “YOU”.

So you give away your responsibility again. Or if you feel responsible about someone you are in a relationship with, you start to adapt to that person’s needs. And then you do that, for example, without listening to your own needs, then you also give away your responsibility. If you don’t feel like doing something, but you want to do it for the sake of pleasing someone else, aren’t you already giving away your own responsibility? And so putting your own happiness in someone’s hands? No one can meet those demands and expectations, because no one is like you.

Taking responsibility for your own life

You yourself know very well your own needs, what you do and do not want or need. Then why don’t you live it? Why are you making it so hard on yourself? Every learned behavior can also be unlearned, but what matters is whether you are prepared to take that responsibility. Ultimately, you are always in control. Then you’re already giving away your own responsibility, aren’t you? And so putting your own happiness in someone’s hands? No one can meet those demands and expectations, because no one is like you. You yourself know very well your own needs, what you do and do not want or need.

Then why don’t you live it? Why are you making it so hard on yourself? Every learned behavior can also be unlearned, but what matters is whether you are prepared to take that responsibility. Ultimately, you are always in control. Then you’re already giving away your own responsibility, aren’t you? And so putting your own happiness in someone’s hands? No one can meet those demands and expectations, because no one is like you. You yourself know very well your own needs, what you do and do not want or need.

Then why don’t you live it? Why are you making it so hard on yourself? Every learned behavior can also be unlearned, but what matters is whether you are prepared to take that responsibility. Ultimately, you are always in control. Then why don’t you live it? Why are you making it so hard on yourself? Every learned behavior can also be unlearned, but what matters is whether you are prepared to take that responsibility. Ultimately, you are always in control. Then why don’t you live it? Why are you making it so hard on yourself? Every learned behavior can also be unlearned, but what matters is whether you are prepared to take that responsibility. Ultimately, you are always in control.

Don’t adjust anymore

Taking responsibility for your own life

In some cases, you will be allowed to compromise with someone else, but talk about it and keep communicating with each other what everyone’s needs are. And give each other the space to not only enjoy together but also to enjoy yourself and sometimes to do things for yourself, to discover yourself and acknowledge your own needs. You are under no obligation to each other to always do what you have always done and to always do everything together. It is precisely those moments when you are alone that you can come to yourself again.

It is precisely those moments when you take the responsibility for yourself that are powerful. And it is precisely those moments that ensure that you feel comfortable in your own skin again and that is only for the good of yourself and those around you. For you live the way you need and want it, and you take total responsibility for your own happiness. No more adjusting to each other, but doing what you need at that moment. And just when you do that, the world around you will adapt to it and before you know it, it has never been different. Only then you will be happier with yourself, and the people around you will also be happier with you.

And that’s what everyone wants, right? So do you take matters into your own hands again, so that you can regain your power? And do you take your own choices about your life again, so that you take your own responsibility again? And that’s what everyone wants, right? So do you take matters into your own hands again, so that you can regain your power? And do you take your own choices about your life again, so that you take your own responsibility again? And that’s what everyone wants, right? So do you take matters into your own hands again, so that you can regain your power? And do you take your own choices about your life again, so that you take your own responsibility again?

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