Let everything flow a little more towards you, instead of forcing it.
Everything is energy
Resonance is about whether you are aligned with something or someone at a particular moment. And that could change at any moment. Because the whole world, including us, consists of energy, everything is always in motion. Just like you have thoughts, feelings and emotions that come and go. One minute you feel happy, the next unhappy. What you think or feel is not a given.
So it is with resonance. One minute something or someone resonates with you, the next it doesn’t. There is no need to hold on to anything or anyone because you can feel something different every moment. There are times when I get along/resonate well with someone, but there are also times when I don’t want to interact with that person for a while because he or she doesn’t resonate with me at that moment. I just follow my gut feeling. I listen to my heart.
Go with the flow
This is where we are going more right now: following your gut. So many expectations, norms, values, beliefs, and conditioning have been created that we have come to believe that we always have to live up to something. But if something or someone does not resonate at the same frequency as you, it may happen that you are not in line with that person and/or situation at that moment. And then you can choose to go with the flow of life.
But because we deal with people (and their feelings, projections, pains…) if you don’t live up to their expectations, you may be met with resistance. This is a tricky part because we’ve learned that when we put energy into something, we get the same back. It’s a give and take. But that conviction is also based on conditioning.
Follow your heart
The more you follow the flow, the more you allow the spontaneity of life to be there, and the more happiness you experience. Because in every moment you live your life the way you want to, and you thereby create your own happiness. So choose what you want every moment and leave everything a little more to the universe. Let everything flow a little more towards you, instead of forcing it. You will see that if you follow your feeling every moment, however illogical it may be, you will experience more joy. For you live your truth and follow your heart. Are you ready to follow your heart?