What does rejection mean to you?

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What does rejection mean to you?
I had written a blog about this before but was not entirely happy with it in the end. This is because my consciousness has increased in the meantime and I look at things differently. It is, of course, a theme for many people and everyone is of course different. This too has mainly to do with a change of consciousness. It has been a theme for me for a long time, which I could not avoid. Often it really determined my life and I really didn’t know how to deal with it sometimes. I was looking for recognition because I never got this in the past. And although I was aware of the fact that it was also a piece of ego, I let it lead me often enough.

Rejection is something you have received from your childhood, experiences, a certain way of upbringing, or beliefs. And somewhere you have also come to believe that you are not good enough somewhere. But if we look further, we also know that rejection comes deep within your heart, because somewhere deep down you are convinced that you are not good enough. You have rejected yourself somewhere because of your experiences, and the outside world is now holding up a mirror to you with what you can still work on.

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Self-love

What does rejection mean to you?

It all starts with self-love, of course. If you have enough self-love, you will not reject yourself and therefore will not care about others the moment they reject you. You just don’t care because at that moment you know it’s not about you. The other has more rejection issues with himself at the time. And that’s not a bad thing, because everyone then goes through his or her own processes. It is important that you continue to focus on your process, and that you work on becoming happy with yourself and the choices you make. Self-love is somehow not really taught to us from childhood.

We have been taught to perform better and better and we have become used to being criticized for our performance, rather than being fully accepted for who we are as a person. It is better to love yourself, how you are, what you and who you are, and what you want to convey. Because that will help you further in life, everything else is not more important. Although that is of course taught in this society.


The society

It is of course too crazy for words if we have to believe how this society works. Nowadays it’s about the clothes you wear or the stuff you have or the job you hold and also how much money you earn. And no longer about the person you are. Something that I personally find much more important. If you stop following the trend in clothing, you will soon be out of fashion. If you don’t have a significantly good job, people often don’t even look at who or what you are.

What does rejection mean to you?

For example, if you ended up on social assistance due to circumstances, people often already have an opinion about you as a person. That is of course all very short-sighted, but it is the society we have ended up in. The society of consumption and prestige. And none of that should have anything to do with who you are as a person and whether or not you accept yourself. Although this society has of course set the whole tone and determined the atmosphere of how people and you think about life. This may change, and it really starts with yourself. You can change your way of thinking and not let yourself be influenced by what is expected of you.

None of that matters, because it always revolves around your process, your decisions, your life, and what you want to propagate. You can change your way of thinking and not let yourself be influenced by what is expected of you. None of that matters, because it always revolves around your process, your decisions, your life, and what you want to propagate. You can change your way of thinking and not let yourself be influenced by what is expected of you. None of that matters, because it always revolves around your process, your decisions, your life, and what you want to propagate.

Choose for yourself

What does rejection mean to you?

And now comes the most important! And that is that you will learn to choose for yourself, and not reject yourself with any possibility. Now the shoe pinches here sometimes because we are sometimes so stuck in our old patterns and expectations of the outside world. Something we all too often allow ourselves to be guided by or worry about. But that doesn’t matter, everything can be learned and unlearned.

If you really want to change and really want to choose for yourself, then you will also do this from a heart’s desire. But be aware of the steps you are taking and also be aware that you will experience many changes on this path.

Changes in yourself that go so far that the world around you will also change. You will make different choices, you will attract different people and have different needs. You will slowly change back to your own and authentic ‘I’. Something you’ve always longed for deep inside, outside all those opinions, patterns, beliefs, etcetera. It is important that you start by learning to say ‘NO’ to everything that does not make you happy and that you really start to feel what you do want and what suits you.

You will no longer meet the expectations of the outside world and you will increasingly choose for yourself. You are going to discover yourself, and let go of who you were. You will grow in consciousness because you let go of the ‘old’, you let go of your ‘old me’. You want to pave your own way, one in which you do what you want at all times.

One in which you are always well in your energy and will shine, and beautiful and new developments continue because you have seen that things can be done differently. You’ve seen the light, and you realize you were trapped in a straitjacket. Because you will shine and no longer reject yourself, you will also have more opportunities in your life.

You will get people on your path who serve you better, and who go along with your development. It’s about discovering who you really are and it’s about your soul and what you want to convey as a soul. And that also means getting out of your comfort zone. and sees that you were trapped in a straitjacket. Because you will shine and no longer reject yourself, you will also have more opportunities in your life. You will get people on your path who serve you better, and who go along with your development.

It’s about discovering who you really are and it’s about your soul and what you want to convey as a soul. And that also means going out of your comfort zone. and sees that you were trapped in a straitjacket. Because you will shine and no longer reject yourself, you will also have more opportunities in your life. You will get people on your path who serve you better, and who go along with your development. It’s about discovering who you really are and it’s about your soul and what you want to convey as a soul. And that also means going out of your comfort zone.

An illusion

What does rejection mean to you?

The outside is just an illusion and once we come to see that, the world in and around you will change. Because only then do you really dare to embrace your true self and see for what it is and what it stands for. Then you learn to love yourself and not to reject it anymore. Then you embrace your ‘less good’ sides and your ‘good’ sides. In reality, you are already perfect as you are, your unique self. Only you can see that for yourself and you can learn to choose for yourself again at all times. It is an illusion that we all strive for if we have to believe what society presents us with.

It’s time to express yourself and show yourself to the world the way you want to be seen. It’s time to become a leader, not a follower. Because anyone can be a leader if you only dare to believe in your own strength. If you dare to stand up for yourself and for the choices you make. And this can just have a lot of effects since it might be a very different role than the one you’ve always ‘played’‘.

Dare to put on those naughty shoes and let go of all those beliefs. Of course, you will be insecure at first and fall back into your old role, but that’s okay. Change happens gradually if you really choose it and really set the intention. Dare to come out of your cocoon and spread your wings, because you too deserve to be a butterfly.

You are the greatest project you will ever get to work on. Take your time. Create magic.

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